Donald...

By now I'm sure you've all heard the audio recording of Donald Sterling's remarks regarding minorities, in particular, African Americans.  If you haven't, do yourself a favor and get with the 21st century.

While I am disappointed, I am not shocked.  I feel sorrow for the players, but not for the NBA.  I am angry at America, but not at Sterling. Why you ask? It's simple.  Are we really surprised? This guy makes millions off of the very people he does not want to attend [his] games.  Did you all forget that we live in a society built on the idea that one race is superior to the next? Did we forget? Or do we choose not to remember?  Either way, racism is and always will be an issue in America.

However, I do feel bad for the Clippers (the players).  Many of us say what we would or wouldn't do, but we never truly know how we would react in a certain situation. These guys have families to feed.  Can they just boycott and decide not to play in the games? Is that fair? Yes, I understand and I agree that they should have enough self respect to stand up for what they believe. But... is that easy? In their line of work?  These are just questions to ponder.

I get so tired of people pretending to be concerned..pretending to be upset. Does it really bother you? Ohhh wait, yes it does...when it directly affects you and/or your pockets. I get it!! I apologize in advance for this rant, but I do not apologize for my feelings [or lack thereof]. I'm a child of God first, a woman next, and finally an African American. Until you walk a mile in my [our] shoes.......



Donald (you don't even deserve to be called 'Mr.')

There is nothing you can say or do to make this 25 year old African American feel less than. You will NEVER know or fully understand the struggles that African Americans face on a daily basis; although I'm certain you could not care less...you're busy getting your millions, right?  Thank you. Thank you for showing us how you really feel; you've done us all a favor.  It is people like you that keep me employed. It is people like you that remind me to never get too comfortable.  It is people like you, Donald, that give me motivation to continue pressing on in my line of work.  Now, I must go..I've wasted too many keystrokes you on.  Keep up the [good] work, America!

Xoxo

Raeofsunshine

Introducing....The Basic Bride

Hey yall it's me...RAEofsunshine! By now you know that I am engaged (as of August 6. 2013). I started this blog as a safe haven for my random thoughts.  Over the past year, I've used it to document memorable milestones.  While this is great [in my opinion] I feel as though I should tred into unmarked territory.  Lots ladies track the journey from their engagement to their wedding.  However, very few give it to you straight. It's not all glitz and glam. So, in order to keep my sanity and give future brides a little insight, I've decided to add a section titled "Wedding Planning 101".  Please feel free to share your success [or horror] stories.  If you feel as though your planning went smoothly, please please share your comments and/or suggestions.  After all, what better way to bring girls together than to drink wine talk about weddings.

Xoxo

Raeofsunshine

A Cup of Encouragement

How often do we spend time with God? I mean, really blocking out our schedules to talk to and hear from God.  How often do we pray? Only when we need an answer? Or, do we constantly thank God for his goodness? These are just questions to ponder. I feel that we can all do better.

Pray without ceasing. 

1 Thessalonians 5:17

It's so easy to get caught up in life.  We take on extra projects at work.  We support our friends and family at various events.  The list goes on and on. Before we know it, we've totally neglected God. Granted, we may say our grace here and there but is that enough? By no means am I saying one must pray 24/7, but I do think we should all have a heart of thanksgiving.  

Oh give thanks to the Lord, for he is good, for his steadfast love endure forever!

Psalm 107:1 

Let's make a commitment to do better.  I feel 110% better when I read my devotion before getting my day started.  When I get to work, I immediately read my devotion and pray.  I do this before cutting on my computer and before returning any phone calls. After work or during lunch may be better for you. Do whatever works! When we do our part, God will most definitely do His.

For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.

Jeremiah 29: 11-13

Have a wonderful Friday and remember, small changes often yield big results.

xoxo

RAEofsunshine