Sooo...this morning I read an article about relationships and "splitting the bill". It immediately sparked my interest and tah-dah...it's today's topic. My question to you is..........does a male ALWAYS have to pay? What's my opinion?...I'm glad you asked. I may be in the 20-25% of women that say this but I don't think so. If you are in a steady relationship with mutual respect for one another...what's wrong with me picking up the tab every once in a while? It's not like he wouldn't or couldn't do it, it's just sometimes I think we (women) can/should show our appreciation (if you have a good man). Yes, I do think relationships should be 50/50, so why should he pay for dinner, pay for the movie, pay for any other activities....that adds up! Now if you guys are casually dating and he asks to take you out, sure, I think he's obligated to pay. As a matter of fact if he didn't I would probably never go on a date with him again.
Although I feel as though I should pick up the tab sometimes, I have a boyfriend that rarely lets me do that. When I say rarely, I mean RARELY. He doesn't care if it's happy hour at Sonic...he insists on buying. Sometimes we will both hand the waiter/waitress our card, forcing them to take one or the other. When we depart, Joey asks 1) Gas in ya tank? 2) Food in ya stomach? 3) Money in ya pocket?
And those are the reasons I do not mind picking up the tab when we go out.
MY OPINION SO DON'T SHOOT ME...I think some women are so use to give give giving that they forget how to sit back and let a man do a man's job. I agree, it can be quite difficult, especially if you've always been the one giving in the past. But I do believe at some point you will realize what and who is good for you and you will begin see things in a whole new perspective. I'm no love expert...I just come across different things and feel the need to discuss them. I would be delighted if whomever is reading this would leave me your thoughts.
Until next time
XOXO
t.RAE :)
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Monday, September 26, 2011
Insomnia
HAIL STATE! Although it was a nail biting game, we pulled it off! We definitely have to step it up for Georgia this week. Congrats to our DAWGS.
I had such a great time at the game! Joey's family had a tailgate so I arrived in the junction Saturday morning. It felt great to be back in the midst of fellow bulldawgs!
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Since the game wasn't over until later, and I wasn't feeling 100%, we decided to stay in for the night. I don't think I've told you guys, but I suffer from a moderate (slightly severe) case of insomnia. I diagnosed myself. Anyway, we had our feet kicked up, sportscenter on, and next thing I know......Joey was knocked out! Of course, I'm wall watching because I can't sleep.
He looked so peaceful I didn't want to wake him but I was miserable. So I gave him a little nudge and said "Joey, I can't sleep." His response (after 2-3 nudges) "oh.....ok". I'm like great, that didn't work. After another hour or so of wall watching, I nudged him again. I said "Joey, you're gonna hurt your neck laying like that...do you want one of these pillows?" Again, I don't know why I insist on making conversation while he's sleep. His response "Babe, that pillow is for you to lay your head on." ::blank stare:: I'm like yeaaaaaaa uhhh I know. After hours of staring into darkness like a psycho woman, he finally rocked the little baby to sleep :)
Now last night was a different story. I was back in Jackson and alone...couldn't sleep....miserable, yet again. I decided to cut the tv on and watch an episode of Bridezillas (if you were up at 3am plzzzz tell me you saw it). 4am...I still couldn't sleep so I walked across to the guest bedroom...why? I have NO clue! On my way back to my room, I heard something and stopped...it was Keitra. So imagine me standing and the top of the stairs at 4am just looking. I bet I freaked her out! HAHAHA! All she said was "What are you doing?"...and then I heard her door shut. I'm thinking "I'm wall watching...what are YOU doing?" I finally fell asleep around 6am and woke up at 6:45a.m.
Yes, I'm about to fall asleep typing this post......if it's all over the place, blame it on insomnia.
Maybe I'll get more sleep tonight and I'll post with some sense tomorrow!
Until then,
XOXO
t.RAE :)
I had such a great time at the game! Joey's family had a tailgate so I arrived in the junction Saturday morning. It felt great to be back in the midst of fellow bulldawgs!
djf djjf jdjf jfkdj jjasldfj djfd fjfda asldfkjeu fast forwardddddddddddddd.......
Since the game wasn't over until later, and I wasn't feeling 100%, we decided to stay in for the night. I don't think I've told you guys, but I suffer from a moderate (slightly severe) case of insomnia. I diagnosed myself. Anyway, we had our feet kicked up, sportscenter on, and next thing I know......Joey was knocked out! Of course, I'm wall watching because I can't sleep.
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| Joey...sleeping like a baby |
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| Me...wall watching |
Now last night was a different story. I was back in Jackson and alone...couldn't sleep....miserable, yet again. I decided to cut the tv on and watch an episode of Bridezillas (if you were up at 3am plzzzz tell me you saw it). 4am...I still couldn't sleep so I walked across to the guest bedroom...why? I have NO clue! On my way back to my room, I heard something and stopped...it was Keitra. So imagine me standing and the top of the stairs at 4am just looking. I bet I freaked her out! HAHAHA! All she said was "What are you doing?"...and then I heard her door shut. I'm thinking "I'm wall watching...what are YOU doing?" I finally fell asleep around 6am and woke up at 6:45a.m.
Yes, I'm about to fall asleep typing this post......if it's all over the place, blame it on insomnia.
Until then,
XOXO
t.RAE :)
Friday, September 23, 2011
Randomness
Sooo, what's up?! Another day, another dollar!! You know what today is?? You guessed it! MAROON FRIDAY!!!!! I'm so excited about going to God's Country tomorrow....after all, doesn't he favor Starkville?! Ready to see the dawgs pull a victory over LA Tech. Family, food, friends, and football....what more can a southern girl ask for?
My week has been pretty good! I had to work at Charming Charlie last night. Some psycho woman came in. I won't describe her---might be a relativer of yoUrs :) Anyway, she nearly turned the store upside!.. acting crazy over a few dollars! But that's neither here nor there and I didn't lose any sleep last night soooo kbye! Then there was a woman who literally sat in the floor and started looking at the jewelry she had just purchased. I said "Ma'am, can I help you with something?" Her reply, "Oh no, thanks; I'm just waiting on my daughter to finish looking." Like seriously?! You're a grown woman and you're gonna sit in the FLOOR and "play" with your jewelry until your daughter finishes?!..forreal forreal?...oh ok then girl!
Enough of that. Early this week I said that I felt as though I've been attacked...I'm so serious! I'm itching soooo bad. I know that sounds utterly disgusting but it's like my arms/legs. I have no idea what's going on so I'm scheduling an appt asaptually. I've never been allergic to anything (that I know of) and I haven't used any different products so I have no idea what's going on. Maybe someone sprinkled itchy dust on me...or perhaps they put voodoo on me! (See how my mind wanders).
On a lighter note, I'm getting a relaxer today! Whooooo I'm so excited because this head is full of naps! I told Joey I was going to get a Boosie fade and what was his reply "It's your head miss....I don't care if you Amber Rose-it out, I'm still going to love you!" Isn't he a sweetheart?! I know I know :)
Well, surely I've given you guys enough randomness for today. This weekend should be filled with more random events so I'll keep you posted.....
Until next time
XOXO,
t.RAE :)
My week has been pretty good! I had to work at Charming Charlie last night. Some psycho woman came in. I won't describe her---might be a relativer of yoUrs :) Anyway, she nearly turned the store upside!.. acting crazy over a few dollars! But that's neither here nor there and I didn't lose any sleep last night soooo kbye! Then there was a woman who literally sat in the floor and started looking at the jewelry she had just purchased. I said "Ma'am, can I help you with something?" Her reply, "Oh no, thanks; I'm just waiting on my daughter to finish looking." Like seriously?! You're a grown woman and you're gonna sit in the FLOOR and "play" with your jewelry until your daughter finishes?!..forreal forreal?...oh ok then girl!
Enough of that. Early this week I said that I felt as though I've been attacked...I'm so serious! I'm itching soooo bad. I know that sounds utterly disgusting but it's like my arms/legs. I have no idea what's going on so I'm scheduling an appt asaptually. I've never been allergic to anything (that I know of) and I haven't used any different products so I have no idea what's going on. Maybe someone sprinkled itchy dust on me...or perhaps they put voodoo on me! (See how my mind wanders).
On a lighter note, I'm getting a relaxer today! Whooooo I'm so excited because this head is full of naps! I told Joey I was going to get a Boosie fade and what was his reply "It's your head miss....I don't care if you Amber Rose-it out, I'm still going to love you!" Isn't he a sweetheart?! I know I know :)
Well, surely I've given you guys enough randomness for today. This weekend should be filled with more random events so I'll keep you posted.....
Until next time
XOXO,
t.RAE :)
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
JUSTICE?
Soooo it's been a minute since I gave you all updates! I have a lot to talk about today, but I'll try to keep it short. I'll start with my weekend. It was absolutely amazing! Friday, I went to watch Coach Sanders lead the Noxubee Tigers to a victory against the West Point Green Waves! It was such a good game! Saturday we hung out with his parents and went to see Columbiana. (I wanted to see Contagion but Joey thinks he's going to catch the disease if we see it. Actually, I was itching during the preview; we're pitiful!) Sunday we went to church and then we had to say our good-byes :(
Today, along with many Americans, I anxiously waited to see the fate of Troy Davis. If you do not know who this is, please GOOGLE right now (I'm not going to explain the entire story). After deliberation, the Georgia Board of Pardons and Paroles denied Davis' clemency. He is set to be executed Wednesday (tomorrow) at 7p.m. They have no DNA from the crime linked to Davis, no forensic evidence, and no weapon was found....YET, he was convicted and sentenced to death. 7 out of the 9 witnesses have recanted their statements, saying they were put under immense pressure from local authorities. Did he commit the crime? I do not know. Is there reasonable doubt? Absolutely.
On the other hand, we have Casey Anthony who had evidence on top of evidence yet, she is free to walk the streets of Florida. And people wonder why we as Americans have lost faith in our judicial system.
I could go on and on but my rant on a blog will not save this man's life.
My heart aches for both families. Both lost a son; one to a grave, and one to prison. I pray that one day, justice will be served.
**I would love to hear your comments regarding this subject**
Until next time
XOXO,
t.RAE :)
Today, along with many Americans, I anxiously waited to see the fate of Troy Davis. If you do not know who this is, please GOOGLE right now (I'm not going to explain the entire story). After deliberation, the Georgia Board of Pardons and Paroles denied Davis' clemency. He is set to be executed Wednesday (tomorrow) at 7p.m. They have no DNA from the crime linked to Davis, no forensic evidence, and no weapon was found....YET, he was convicted and sentenced to death. 7 out of the 9 witnesses have recanted their statements, saying they were put under immense pressure from local authorities. Did he commit the crime? I do not know. Is there reasonable doubt? Absolutely.
On the other hand, we have Casey Anthony who had evidence on top of evidence yet, she is free to walk the streets of Florida. And people wonder why we as Americans have lost faith in our judicial system.
I could go on and on but my rant on a blog will not save this man's life.
My heart aches for both families. Both lost a son; one to a grave, and one to prison. I pray that one day, justice will be served.
**I would love to hear your comments regarding this subject**
Until next time
XOXO,
t.RAE :)
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Blah.....
For once in my life....I have nothing to say. Today isn't a bad day, but it isn't good either....it's just blah. I wish I were in Starkville for the game vs LSU (HAIL STATE). I wish Joey was here. I wish I had my Aunt Mary and my Aunt Kim. I keep having dreams about them....last night I woke up in tears. I will blog about them...just not today.
Until next time
XOXO
t.RAE :)
Until next time
XOXO
t.RAE :)
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
A DAY IN THE LIFE....
Sooo as promised, I'm going tell you guys alllllll about my first day at Charming Charlie (please don't add the 's'). I was going to update you last night, but by the time I got home....all I wanted was my bed! They wore a sistah out!
First things first
1) You have to carry this clear purse!
No stealing at CC! It's hideous yet hilarious! Anyway, after working 5 hours alongside someone who started every sentence with "my boyfriend" I decided to give y'all a break. I know I talk about Joey ALOT....and I don't wanna be "that girl" so I'll give it a break.............................who am I kidding? Joey Joey Joey I'm pretty sure I couldn't go a week without saying something about him on here! HA
Ok, back to business. The night actually went well. But it wouldn't be me if there weren't any embarrasing moments.
Moment #1: I have abnormally tiny ears. I don't know who these headsets are made for, but they are certainly not made for people with small ears. While trying to remain a "cheerful charmer" and greet customers, I felt retarded several times because my ear piece would fall out of my ear. So it was like "Welcome to Charming Charlie ::ear piece falls out:: have you...::customer keeps walking::" Of course Operation: Trynottolooklikethenewgirl.....fail! BUT, they are going to find me a headset made specifically for people with tiny ears!
Moment #2: I'll spare y'all the details of arranging racks, etc because it is very confusing. I mean, it's not rocket science, but sometimes I wonder if I were born blonde?! After neatly straightening the racks (the way we are suppose to) I had a girl training me to check & make sure I did everything correctly. She went over to one rack and said "Oh, you haven't done this one yet have you?" Ehhhh, actually I have! I was so shame I just played it off and said "Oh that one?..No, I haven't made it over there yet!"
After an eventful night, I was extremely tired and sad because I missed by 10pm bedtime...BUT I had a great night! All went well..........until closing. Maniac Miranda "forgot" how to close the registers and caused us to stay an extra hour while she fixed the problem. I didn't get home until a little after 11pm. Now, I'm one to talk, but by the time I got in my truck I just wanted to go.to.bed.
So, if I had to describe my first day in one word.......EVENTFUL! But the highlight of my night was a hs senior coming in and asking me to help her find a homecoming outfit for the peprally. Both her and her mom were in a frenzy. I got her a dress, shoes, & jewelry. Headed out the door she said "Thank you so much for helping me." It brought back memories of my homecoming experience at STATE. I remember being in a panic and needing an outfit for pictures. Someone (shots out to Libby Story) took the time to make sure I looked nice, and for that I was grateful. At the end of the day, seeing a smile is really all that matters:)
Oh, and while I have your attention...let me address one more issue. Yesterday I got back to my office and asked a male co worker to help get a few items out of my trunk. Keep in mind a had a few extra boxes and "junk" in there. While walking out (him behind me) I said "pay no attention to the junk in my trunk". Once I realized what I said I was like ha.ha....no pun intended. His face was as red as an apple. I stood there looking out the corner of my eye. We walked back in the building in silence.
The End.
Until next time
XOXO
t.RAE :)
First things first
No stealing at CC! It's hideous yet hilarious! Anyway, after working 5 hours alongside someone who started every sentence with "my boyfriend" I decided to give y'all a break. I know I talk about Joey ALOT....and I don't wanna be "that girl" so I'll give it a break.............................who am I kidding? Joey Joey Joey I'm pretty sure I couldn't go a week without saying something about him on here! HA
Ok, back to business. The night actually went well. But it wouldn't be me if there weren't any embarrasing moments.
Moment #1: I have abnormally tiny ears. I don't know who these headsets are made for, but they are certainly not made for people with small ears. While trying to remain a "cheerful charmer" and greet customers, I felt retarded several times because my ear piece would fall out of my ear. So it was like "Welcome to Charming Charlie ::ear piece falls out:: have you...::customer keeps walking::" Of course Operation: Trynottolooklikethenewgirl.....fail! BUT, they are going to find me a headset made specifically for people with tiny ears!
Moment #2: I'll spare y'all the details of arranging racks, etc because it is very confusing. I mean, it's not rocket science, but sometimes I wonder if I were born blonde?! After neatly straightening the racks (the way we are suppose to) I had a girl training me to check & make sure I did everything correctly. She went over to one rack and said "Oh, you haven't done this one yet have you?" Ehhhh, actually I have! I was so shame I just played it off and said "Oh that one?..No, I haven't made it over there yet!"
After an eventful night, I was extremely tired and sad because I missed by 10pm bedtime...BUT I had a great night! All went well..........until closing. Maniac Miranda "forgot" how to close the registers and caused us to stay an extra hour while she fixed the problem. I didn't get home until a little after 11pm. Now, I'm one to talk, but by the time I got in my truck I just wanted to go.to.bed.
So, if I had to describe my first day in one word.......EVENTFUL! But the highlight of my night was a hs senior coming in and asking me to help her find a homecoming outfit for the peprally. Both her and her mom were in a frenzy. I got her a dress, shoes, & jewelry. Headed out the door she said "Thank you so much for helping me." It brought back memories of my homecoming experience at STATE. I remember being in a panic and needing an outfit for pictures. Someone (shots out to Libby Story) took the time to make sure I looked nice, and for that I was grateful. At the end of the day, seeing a smile is really all that matters:)
Oh, and while I have your attention...let me address one more issue. Yesterday I got back to my office and asked a male co worker to help get a few items out of my trunk. Keep in mind a had a few extra boxes and "junk" in there. While walking out (him behind me) I said "pay no attention to the junk in my trunk". Once I realized what I said I was like ha.ha....no pun intended. His face was as red as an apple. I stood there looking out the corner of my eye. We walked back in the building in silence.
The End.
Until next time
XOXO
t.RAE :)
Tuesday, September 13, 2011
NEW ADVENTURES...
Soooo guess what I did this morning? Yup, you guessed! I went to run!! I'm so proud of myself. If you know me, you know it's easier finding a 4leaf clover than getting me out of bed...but I did it and I feel so much better! We are training for the Breast Cancer run in October so we did 2 miles this morning. Our next run is Thursday morning. Since I dislike breaking promises, I'm not going to say I'll be there but I am going to try my very best! Shots out to Nakeitra Hill for that motivation...love ya sis!
I'm on a natural high right now (thanks to the cup of coffee) however, I wonder will I feel like this at 5pm. I start my part time gig today. I'll be working at Charming Charlie! I'm pretty excited to see the marketing/business aspect of retail. No, I'm not trying to work myself to death. For right now it's only 2 days a week from 5:30-9...I'm actually looking forward to the experience, not to mention the extra cash! So come see me soon! (don't ask me for a discount...I'm letting you know now...juuuust kidding...well really, not really). I went in last week to fill out my schedule (yea, two day schedule lol) and get the ins and outs of the store. (oh yea, we are called "charmers" isn't that cute?!) So, I never knew "charmers" had a dress code. They told me I had to wear 60% black and 40% white. You can guess what I did....gave them a blank stare -__-. For real for real, what is up with the 60/40 ratio? Is that black to my boobs?...because technically 50% would be to my waist right? This is a serious question and I need answers!!! If that weren't enough...the next rule was "you must wear at least 6 accessories!" I feel like Kanye! 'Dawg, how they expect me to make it past the detectors with all this jewelry on?!" Needless to say, I have on my 60% black and 40% white with 5 accessories on :) I better find a 6th piece...I'd hate to get fired on my 1st day!
Anyway, I'll let you guys know how it goes!!
Until next time
XOXO
t.RAE :)
I'm on a natural high right now (thanks to the cup of coffee) however, I wonder will I feel like this at 5pm. I start my part time gig today. I'll be working at Charming Charlie! I'm pretty excited to see the marketing/business aspect of retail. No, I'm not trying to work myself to death. For right now it's only 2 days a week from 5:30-9...I'm actually looking forward to the experience, not to mention the extra cash! So come see me soon! (don't ask me for a discount...I'm letting you know now...juuuust kidding...well really, not really). I went in last week to fill out my schedule (yea, two day schedule lol) and get the ins and outs of the store. (oh yea, we are called "charmers" isn't that cute?!) So, I never knew "charmers" had a dress code. They told me I had to wear 60% black and 40% white. You can guess what I did....gave them a blank stare -__-. For real for real, what is up with the 60/40 ratio? Is that black to my boobs?...because technically 50% would be to my waist right? This is a serious question and I need answers!!! If that weren't enough...the next rule was "you must wear at least 6 accessories!" I feel like Kanye! 'Dawg, how they expect me to make it past the detectors with all this jewelry on?!" Needless to say, I have on my 60% black and 40% white with 5 accessories on :) I better find a 6th piece...I'd hate to get fired on my 1st day!
Anyway, I'll let you guys know how it goes!!
Until next time
XOXO
t.RAE :)
Monday, September 12, 2011
What a weekend.....
Soo....it's Monday and I'm definitely feeling the affects of the weekend. I'm not sure who told me I was superwoman...but I definitely played the role for nearly 24 hours. I salute all you parents/wives out there! Let me tell ya bout it. Friday, I fought to keep my eyes open. Trying to stay up until Joey got home from his hs football game. (They won...GO TIGERS). I finally drifted to sleep, knowing I had a full day planned for Saturday. I actually planned Saturday as a "lazy day". I named it "J & Rae Day 2011. I know that's gay...so don't bother to tell me. LOL! Anyway, it was a lazy day...............for him!
I woke up around 9am to prepare for the festivities. After making multiple runs to the store (b/c you always forget something), I was ready to get going. MSU played Auburn so I decided to host a mini tailgate. When I say mini...I mean mini...it was just the 2 of us. Anyway, I prepared chicken dip, sausage balls, and a fruit tray. I'm no Betty Crocker, but the food was good! As Joey examined each play, I religiously rang my cowbell trying my best to cheer the dawgs to a victory. By the time the game was over, I had to prepare for dinner! Yes, I cooked dinner too! We had pepper steak & rice, roasted potatoes, and green beans! I guess it was good because there wasn't a single grain of rice left on his plate :)
By the time we finished dinner I could barely keep my eyes open. Being the gentleman that he is, Joey washed the dishes so I could take a break. Even though I'm still a little tired and sleepy from the weekend...it was all worth it! They say love will make you do some crazy things!!....hahaha.
A little off topic, but I'll be going to sleep super early tonight! We start training for the breast cancer run in the am. If you're interested, please post a comment and I'll get your information to Nakeitra Hill-our personal trainer.
Until next time.....
XOXO
t.RAE :)
I woke up around 9am to prepare for the festivities. After making multiple runs to the store (b/c you always forget something), I was ready to get going. MSU played Auburn so I decided to host a mini tailgate. When I say mini...I mean mini...it was just the 2 of us. Anyway, I prepared chicken dip, sausage balls, and a fruit tray. I'm no Betty Crocker, but the food was good! As Joey examined each play, I religiously rang my cowbell trying my best to cheer the dawgs to a victory. By the time the game was over, I had to prepare for dinner! Yes, I cooked dinner too! We had pepper steak & rice, roasted potatoes, and green beans! I guess it was good because there wasn't a single grain of rice left on his plate :)
By the time we finished dinner I could barely keep my eyes open. Being the gentleman that he is, Joey washed the dishes so I could take a break. Even though I'm still a little tired and sleepy from the weekend...it was all worth it! They say love will make you do some crazy things!!....hahaha.
A little off topic, but I'll be going to sleep super early tonight! We start training for the breast cancer run in the am. If you're interested, please post a comment and I'll get your information to Nakeitra Hill-our personal trainer.
Until next time.....
XOXO
t.RAE :)
Thursday, September 8, 2011
I HAVE A DREAM...
Soooo, It's been a minute since my last posting! Between the holiday, meetings with my job, and SLEEP, I haven't been able to keep up! As a matter of fact, I'm seeing double today so I hope I can make it till 5. I hope you all had an awesome Labor Day...I did :) Joey was able to escape from the field for one day (whoo hoo) so he came down. We went to see "The Help".............which brings me to today's topic!
In December of 2010, I went to visit a friend of a friend. While there, the mother made the statement.."Ok girls, tell Miss NaToya what movie y'all are going to be in"...they replied "The Help". At this point, I had never heard of the book or movie. How cool is that?...amongst little movie stars and didn't even know it. Months passed, anticipation grew (esp in MS), and I began to hear more and more about it. I wanted to hold off seeing the movie until I finished the book. Even though I have yet to finish (idk what I'm waiting on ) we went to see it this past weekend. Mae Mobley (played by both Emma and Ella Henry) did an outstanding job!...I'm sure you would agree :) As much as I adore those sweet little babies, they are not my topic. I wanted to focus on the racial aspect of the movie/book. Go head, adjust your collars beacuse it's about to get real. As we know, MS is the capital of racism. Sure, it exists everywhere, but it was and still is VERY prominent in MS. We all flocked to the movies to see what the big screen had to say about racism in Mississippi...but truth is, we are living it.
On June 26, 2011 a 49 yr old black male was brutally attacked by several white teenagers....teens y'all! If that were not enough, one teen deliberately ran Mr. Anderson over with his Ford F-250. Mr. Anderson's lifeless body lay there, as a result of yet another hate crime in MS. Yes, it sparked national attention....but only after the video went viral on YouTube and other media outlets. I know racism did not start yesterday, but it's something I do not understand. Who says that one race is superior to another? I know my little blog will not change the way things are, but sometimes it takes one person to make a big difference. I won't go further with this discussion because it can easily be taken out of context. My question is, why does skin color matter? Sure, I may feel more comfortable around my people (African Americans) but I have no problem with any other race. I guess I'm living in a fairytale world where I can blink my eyes and we all be equal........I'll keep praying on that one. Please don't get me wrong...I love my state...I love my southern upbringing...wouldn't change it for the world. I just wish some things would change.
I will leave you with this...
"I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice." -MLK
Until next time
XOXO
t.RAE :)
In December of 2010, I went to visit a friend of a friend. While there, the mother made the statement.."Ok girls, tell Miss NaToya what movie y'all are going to be in"...they replied "The Help". At this point, I had never heard of the book or movie. How cool is that?...amongst little movie stars and didn't even know it. Months passed, anticipation grew (esp in MS), and I began to hear more and more about it. I wanted to hold off seeing the movie until I finished the book. Even though I have yet to finish (idk what I'm waiting on ) we went to see it this past weekend. Mae Mobley (played by both Emma and Ella Henry) did an outstanding job!...I'm sure you would agree :) As much as I adore those sweet little babies, they are not my topic. I wanted to focus on the racial aspect of the movie/book. Go head, adjust your collars beacuse it's about to get real. As we know, MS is the capital of racism. Sure, it exists everywhere, but it was and still is VERY prominent in MS. We all flocked to the movies to see what the big screen had to say about racism in Mississippi...but truth is, we are living it.
On June 26, 2011 a 49 yr old black male was brutally attacked by several white teenagers....teens y'all! If that were not enough, one teen deliberately ran Mr. Anderson over with his Ford F-250. Mr. Anderson's lifeless body lay there, as a result of yet another hate crime in MS. Yes, it sparked national attention....but only after the video went viral on YouTube and other media outlets. I know racism did not start yesterday, but it's something I do not understand. Who says that one race is superior to another? I know my little blog will not change the way things are, but sometimes it takes one person to make a big difference. I won't go further with this discussion because it can easily be taken out of context. My question is, why does skin color matter? Sure, I may feel more comfortable around my people (African Americans) but I have no problem with any other race. I guess I'm living in a fairytale world where I can blink my eyes and we all be equal........I'll keep praying on that one. Please don't get me wrong...I love my state...I love my southern upbringing...wouldn't change it for the world. I just wish some things would change.
I will leave you with this...
"I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice." -MLK
Until next time
XOXO
t.RAE :)
Friday, September 2, 2011
Keep the FAITH!
Soooo, It's a must that I start off by congratulating our DAWGS on their victory over Memphis!! HAIL STATE!
While laying in my bed last night, I was trying to think of a topic for today....nothing came to mind. I got to work....still nothing. I started going through my to-do list and I got completely stressed out. Thanks to this little frenzy, I came up with today's topic---keep the FAITH!
Just a few days ago I was speaking with one of my line sisters (OO-OOP). Over the past few weeks, she has been mourning the loss of her father. However, she has been using this time to really lean and depend on God. Now, I'm no saint for sure, but I am a believer. After our conversation something hit me. So many times we (self included) can give great advice "Oh girl just keep the faith", "Trust in God, he will bring you through", "Don't worry, just pray"....these sound familiar?..no? ok, well they do to me! However, when it comes to us, and our own situation....are we eager to take our own advice? Generally speaking, no.
Again, I can only speak for myself...so, I am by no means trying to step on any toes...
When things are going good, I'm happy...on cloud 9...thanking God for his many blessings and trying my best to bless others. The minute something goes wrong, I get in slump. I'd rather not be bothered (if you know me you know this is true). I never lose faith, however, it gets shaken a little. In the midst of trial, our vision can become a little blury. I get sooooo stressed out when things do not go as planned. From now on, I am really working on letting God handle situations that are beyond my control.
So, when things go wrong as they sometimes will....KEEP THE FAITH! I would like to share a couple of my favorite bible verses with you.
"If you falter in times of trouble, how small is your strength." Proverbs 24:10
"Let us not become weary in doing good,
for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." Galatians 6:9
I know this post is all over the place but it is simply because I am speaking from the heart (forgive me). I hope this helps someone; I challenge you to KEEP THE FAITH!
Until next time...
XOXO
t.RAE :)
While laying in my bed last night, I was trying to think of a topic for today....nothing came to mind. I got to work....still nothing. I started going through my to-do list and I got completely stressed out. Thanks to this little frenzy, I came up with today's topic---keep the FAITH!
Just a few days ago I was speaking with one of my line sisters (OO-OOP). Over the past few weeks, she has been mourning the loss of her father. However, she has been using this time to really lean and depend on God. Now, I'm no saint for sure, but I am a believer. After our conversation something hit me. So many times we (self included) can give great advice "Oh girl just keep the faith", "Trust in God, he will bring you through", "Don't worry, just pray"....these sound familiar?..no? ok, well they do to me! However, when it comes to us, and our own situation....are we eager to take our own advice? Generally speaking, no.
Again, I can only speak for myself...so, I am by no means trying to step on any toes...
When things are going good, I'm happy...on cloud 9...thanking God for his many blessings and trying my best to bless others. The minute something goes wrong, I get in slump. I'd rather not be bothered (if you know me you know this is true). I never lose faith, however, it gets shaken a little. In the midst of trial, our vision can become a little blury. I get sooooo stressed out when things do not go as planned. From now on, I am really working on letting God handle situations that are beyond my control.
So, when things go wrong as they sometimes will....KEEP THE FAITH! I would like to share a couple of my favorite bible verses with you.
"If you falter in times of trouble, how small is your strength." Proverbs 24:10
"Let us not become weary in doing good,
for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up." Galatians 6:9
I know this post is all over the place but it is simply because I am speaking from the heart (forgive me). I hope this helps someone; I challenge you to KEEP THE FAITH!
Until next time...
XOXO
t.RAE :)
Thursday, September 1, 2011
HAIL STATE!
fight for the victory toooodaaaaay!
Hit that line and tote that ball,
cross the goal before you fall....
and we will yell yell YELL YEEELLL,
for dear ole STATE we'll yell like H-E-L-L!
Fight for Mississippi State...
Wiiiiin the game tooodaaaaay!
GO STATE!
Soooo I'm sure everyone is excited about tonight's game against Memphis, right?...Of course you are! Football in the South is not a tradition...it's a way of life! You aren't born a male or female...you're born a Rebel (excuse me, black bear) or a BULLDAWG! It's only right that I start your day off with the fight song! Myself, along with thousands of other TRUE MAROON fans will be tuning in for tonight's victory over the Memphis Tigers (yes, I'm claiming a victory).
Some people (very few) have questioned my love for STATE. When asked I simply reply "I love my school." I must admit, I was very apprehensive about going to college. I have NO idea why because college was never an option in our household. I knew I was going...I just wasn't very thrilled about moving away from home and assuming responsibility; which I suppose is normal. Once I made the decision to go to STATE.....my life changed. From the moment I stepped on campus, I knew I made the right decision. So when I say I love my school....it's genuine. I love the people, the atmosphere, the sports, the drill field, the union, the junction, not to mention the friendships created...I could literally go on and on! I have nothing but great memories from my undergraduate years at STATE. Everyone associated with STATE is no longer an Alumni, Faculty, Student...in my book, we are family.
As I think about tonight's game, I can't help but get teary eyed thinking of our fellow Bulldawg, Nick Bell. Nick was a great guy and an even better friend. He is gone, but definitely not forgotten.
I'm so ready for 5oclock I can hardly contain myself! I was VERY tempted to bring my cowbell to work, but since I'm still fairly new....I'll wait :) But when the clock strikes 5, I will be in front of the television, with my cowbell in hand, grindin' for OUR STATE!
Wrapped in MAROON AND WHITE
t.RAE xoxo
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